It is true to say that women who come into Orgasm, often come rather hungry for a fabled g-spot climax. Understandably, it is a highly sought after sensation. And in fact, there is a huge amount to know about this part of our sexuality.

Let's go back to the erectile tissue lesson in Module 2 for a moment. You may remember, that we have a lot of erectile tissue, and that a decent portion of it is wrapped around the urethral tube. Which makes total sense when you think about it, as vaginal penetration and the sheer rhythm of the movements that bring the vagina pleasure, could also irritate the urethra if there was no padding at all.

So the urethral sponge - which is the g-spot (or more accurately g area) is a great protection. It fills and engorges due to the erectile capillaries which trap blood in the area, and the tissue itself puffs up and surrounds the urethra.

Not only does this prevent chaffing of the urethral tube itself, a delicate piece of equipment that carries urine from the bladder. But also - being erectile tissue - this is a type of padding that feels super yummy to the touch.

It's worth considering that if frequent cystitis or urethral irritation is an issue for you, that you may want to go a bit slower and check your g-spot is fully activated before you do actually penetrate. Get your padding in place, basically.

Watery and Emotional

So, we are getting to the part of the course where we are beginning to move out of the idea of orgasm as a contraction based activity. The kind of clench and release that so many of us are familiar with when it comes to climax states. We also began to explore the capacity of sexual pleasure and how it can relate to and include your deep emotionality in the last couple of lessons.

In this lesson, where you get to touch your g-spot, you will begin to see how this emotional exploration was really good practice for coming into contact with your g-spot. Because the g-spot does have a certain essence to it. It simply isn't at highly strung as your clitoris. Perhaps because of its close proximity to your waterworks, literally, your g-spot can have a deep, emotional and watery quality to it.

For example, you can have a quick clitoral climax when stressed, or angry for example. Or even whilst depressed. The pleasure from your g-spot is different, it will feel a bit deeper. In fact, it can sometimes feel like a dam that wants to break - there is a definite sense of something building in a full way that works towards a release without any contraction. It has even been described as feeling slightly unsettling. Until it burst and then... well. Let's see how you experience your own.

Squirting

Of course, squirting is also what the g-spot is famous for. Because of that I wrote you a whole beginner's guide below. Plus a step by step guide to helping yourself squirt if that is something that is of interest to you.

One thing to remember - get some protection down on your bedding.

And be prepared to let go of inhibition too. Whilst, in theory, the female ejaculate that comes out is completely free of urine, and tastes and smells pretty innocuous. The reality is that some urine almost always comes out too. I can vouch for this personally, and when I recently swallowed my pride and posted this on an online form where squirting was being discussed, I got a lot of women also admit that this was true for them.

Remember to Ditch the Self-Induced Performance

Honestly? I whole-heartedly recommend that if you desire to go for a g-spot release, that you approach it with a sense of fun and exploration. Pushing your g-spot to achieve is likely not going to get you that hot and bothered in the g-spot area.

Just like the element of water. Just like your emotionality. G-spot is all about letting go and letting your body get real. Quite a journey in itself.

Have a read of your guides below. And your homeplay for this lesson is a beautiful and gentle exploration of this area and some of the concepts discussed above.

Beginners Guide to Squirting

What it is, whether it's possible, and what all the fuss is about in this beginners' guide to squirting

How to Squirt

The step by step process to get squirting! Give it a try.

G-Spot Goodness

Let's get in relationship with the big G!

The G Spot and Female Ejaculation Explained

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