Beginners Guide to Female Pleasure as Power

How to Upgrade Your Power Through Pleasure

• Female pleasure is one of the most untapped resources on the planet.
• Normally, female pleasure is seen through the lens of being ABOUT or FOR somebody else. Rarely celebrated for its own sake or for the woman experiencing it.
• For the most part, women are primed to make others happy or to put the pleasure of others before their own. (Right?!)
• Female pleasure is still a fairly taboo in terms of social acceptability. (Anyone ever mention it in church, school or in the cultural institutions of our time, for example?)
• Which is a shame – because I am here to teach you how you can tap into this endless (and easy) resource as women, and how you can actually use your pleasure as rocket fuel for your entire life.
• Pleasure is Power (okay so I think I said that.)

Why is Female Pleasure so Important Though?

• Think of it as a form of nutrition – your sex is as important as your vitamins. A whole host of feel good hormones flow when your pleasure is on board, sending relaxation and vitality throughout your whole system.
• Pleasure helps you frame everything more positively and roll with what life throws at you. Remember how you felt after great sex? (Hopefully AT LEAST once in your life ladies!) And remember how you felt you could take on the world? Pleasure is the ultimate resetter.
• Access to your pleasure will help you feel more in control of your life – if you are able to tune into your turn on you can affect your state of mind very powerfully.
• It’s a great guide to what’s right for you. Forget all the shame based “should haves” you were educated with. The small, tiny whispers of desire will guide you home – if you have the courage to listen to them.
• The more you focus on pleasure, the more it grows in daily life. it’s like it was just waiting for you all along. Your pleasure LOVES you ladies!
• Women are actually anatomically designed for pleasure (hello clitoris) – 8000 nerve endings in this little organ alone (almost 8 times that of a penis OMGeeeee!!!) So – it’s kinda our biological destiny.

How to get started with Your Pleasure Power

• First things first you need to know what you got that turns you on. (And believe it or not the network is vast. A woman has at least the same amount of erectile tissue in her body as a man, for example. Much of it hidden – but delicious nevertheless.)
• Second thing is you need to make pleasure a priority in your life. No more shunting your desires to the back of the queue while you serve family/children/career/insert the thing. How would it be to make that commitment to yourself today?

Tips for Success in Pleasure Power

• Be open to changing your idea of what it means to be a powerful woman. Pleasure is softer than you might expect.
• Start with the small wins. Honestly, it takes hardly anything to introduce this concept of daily pleasure into your life and, take it from me, the rewards are enormous.
• Don’t push it – pleasure lives in your body, and our bodies are generally sick and tired of being expected to be something they are not.
• Cultivate a relationship of deep listening to it. You will find your pleasure is like a desperate and thirsty animal – start watering it and it will respond in a way that goes beyond your wildest dreams.
• Find pleasure friends – community that values your pleasure and wellbeing will rocket fuel your access to it.
• In the beginning at least, protect your pleasure with good boundaries and care. You are venturing into taboo – female pleasure for pleasure’s sake alone? Uneducated others – often women – will do it down as they can find it threatening to behold.

FAQ About Feminine Pleasure Power

• This Is All Well and Good – But How On Earth Will I Take This Into My Real Life?

  • The thing about this type of power is that you don’t have to do anything. Can you think, for example, of a woman you have met who seemed to flow through the room with effortless grace and emanating well-being?  Nothing about it is forced, and she seems to magnetise good times towards her with total ease, right? It is easy to secretly admire or even feel jealous of such a woman. But the fact is is that that woman is simply dialled into her daily pleasures. And you can enjoy that too. Believe me, you don’t have to flout it or throw it all over the place. A woman with a dialled in pleasure practice will quietly revolutionise the room. (Oh I LOVE that. That kind of power.)

• I Don’t Think I Have Ever Enjoyed Sex, How Can This Help Me?

  • Firstly, there is nothing wrong with you. Honestly, it’s not you, it’s the sex you’re having. You are not broken. I have seen so many women open up their sexuality and reclaim their sense of themselves as sexual beings – even in the event of abuse or total shut down. Pleasure is still possible for you. The miracle of our bodies and our nervous systems is that – they are actually built to heal.

• But I Have a Lot of Power Already and It’s Not Making Me Happy, tbh.

  • You are not alone. I have met so many women – whether in corporate life or running the household or both – who have reached the pinnacle of what they assumed power was. Their lives are shiny. They are heading up huge projects and teams, they have a degree of success in the world, or they have the house of their dreams and the CEO husband. Whatever was important to them they have generally achieved. The destination of power has been arrived at aleady. And they have never felt so desperate or empty in their lives. I hope I have made it clear by now – I am talking about an entirely different type of power. Like a forgotten art. A power that lives softly in our bodies. The kind of power we find crying out for attention in the middle of the night or that we stifle down as we get up to face the day.
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The Last Thing You Need to Know about Pleasure and Power as a Woman

• Pleasure, literally, is your birthright as a woman. Your entire body is built around it. And it is waiting for you EVERYWHERE. At every turn it is possible to drink it in.
• If you do this – the amount of personal power you experience in your life will increase overnight.
• Not convinced? Try downloading this FREE pdf guide HERE and experiencing more pleasure wins on a daily basis. Try it for a week and get back to me with your results.
• Feel free to leave your comments below – I always love to hear from you 🙂